Fair

“It’s not fair!” I hear that a lot. I think that often as well. This is a tough concept.

Sometimes, things really aren’t fair. Other times, things are exactly fair.

I’ve probably talked about this before. Whenever I’m on a kick of getting into better shape, and the only mathematical way to lose weight is to eat healthier and exercise (but mostly its about the food)….I find myself thinking, “Hey! This isn’t fair!” about the treats I have to forego in order to meet a health goal.

And that’s the thing: it’s EXACTLY fair. Either I want the health goal or I want all the treats. Its one or the other (that’s not to say that quantity doesn’t factor into this-when portions get figured out, many treats are back on the table).

“All things are caused.” or “Everything has causes.” I’ve been googling who the owner of that quote is and I haven’t found it yet. I’ll let you know when I find who we should credit 🙂

Sometimes the causes seem completely outside of our control, but there may be some small piece where we can affect change.

More on this after work!

Hugs!!!! I hope you carve a pumpkin or put up some fake spiderwebs!

Terra